The differences between men and women

After growing up, I gradually realize that there are so many differences between men and women. Some of them are good, but also some are bad. And I think the biggest difference is concerned in their living attitude.

Living attitude includes two main parts, the first one is the work attitude. Since we are getting older and older, we also have more and more pressures about our futures. We cannot just like a little child, and do not think about anything at all. We may start setting goals and ideas for our futures and also try our best to accomplish them. And it's easy to see that men gradually put focus on their job more and more. I often see a lot of men really concentrate on making his career hardly to be successful. I think it's not just because they know they have some responsibilies in their family and this society but also they may earn a lot of money and feel very proud of themselves. Definitely, women make efforts on their work very much as well, but if they compare to men, I think men have more enterprises than women.

The second one is the difference of affection attitude. The reason is because I often hear other peole's love stories and not all of them have a good ending. And I think that a lot of men get changed when they grow up. Perhaps it's because the values of the world are changed as well. But I still feel so hard to accept that because I really don't undersatnd that why people changes so much. Sometimes my friends complained to me that how bad their boyfriends or husbands are. Or even I watch news, I also often see a lot of men treat their women not really well such as abusing women or having extramarital relations. And this is very terrible, isn't it?

Therefore, more and more people get divorced. People do not trust each other so much as they were young. And it makes me feel very sad because I do really want to keep my innocence forevere. I don't want to change myself to be a person that I dislike one day. But it looks like would be pretty hard because the world had been already changed. And we have to make some changes as well in order to protect ourselves. Sometime I'm also curious about why it' s so hard for a man to keep a good and simple relationship with his woman. And I think that it's probably because men's personalitis and thoughts are very different from women's.

In conclusion, I think God creates two sex kinds of human being definitely has his reasons. Even though they are so different, but it also makes this world get more interesting. And I also believe that if we could try to understand each other more and communicate constantly, both men and women could get along very well and lead a happy life together.